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Divorcing a Narcissist: The Guidebook to Freedom and Sanity

Edy Zoo
9 min readJan 29, 2025

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Photo by Marija Zaric on Unsplash

Have you ever witnessed the grand finale of a magic show — where the lights dim, the illusions intensify, and you suddenly realize you’ve been dazzled from the start? This story feels a bit like that.

Tonight, reporting from the emotional front lines, I bring you a tale that begins in a realm of enchantment and ends in a battlefield of hidden daggers: divorcing a narcissist. It’s like stepping behind the curtain, discovering all the sleight of hand, and understanding there’s nothing mystical about it after all.

Let’s get the scene set. Imagine a relationship that kicks off with intense admiration, continuous compliments, and a passion so electric you might liken it to fireworks on a balmy summer night. Truly, it all began with a mesmerizing introduction — dinners by candlelight, sweet nothings whispered in your ear, and endless affirmation that you are the center of someone’s universe.

But watch closely: that starry-eyed reality can flip into a lonely wasteland when you’re dealing with a person whose sense of self dominates every conversation, every argument, and every triumph. It starts like a dream but ends like a nightmare, a perfect embodiment of antithesis.

You might wonder: Is it really that grim? Absolutely. And saying it’s tough is putting it lightly. You’re…

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Edy Zoo
Edy Zoo

Written by Edy Zoo

Edy Zoo is a social critic, theologian, and philosopher who writes about social subjects.

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