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Embracing Forgiveness: Letting Go of Resentment Without Reconciliation

Sometimes it’s the best you can do.

Edy Zoo
4 min readMar 16, 2023
There’s a man holding a sign that says, “Forgiveness.”
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Hey there! Today, we’re diving into the captivating world of forgiveness. We’ll explore how forgiveness releases resentment or anger and how it doesn’t always mean reconciliation. So, grab a cup of tea, get comfy, and let’s get started!

Picture this: Your best friend of 10 years suddenly does something that deeply hurts you. They apologize, but the wound is still fresh, and you’re not quite ready to trust them again. Do you forgive them? Do you have to rebuild the relationship the way it was?

Well, that’s where the magic of forgiveness comes in! Contrary to popular belief, forgiveness isn’t about returning to the same relationship or accepting harmful behaviors from an offender. Instead, it’s about freeing yourself from the shackles of resentment and anger.

Forgiveness: The Great Emotional Unburdening

Forgiveness is like a soothing balm for your emotional wounds. It’s a choice to let go of the anger, bitterness, and resentment that weigh you down. But did you know that holding onto resentment can significantly impact your mental and physical health? In fact, studies have shown that practicing forgiveness can lower stress, blood pressure…

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Edy Zoo
Edy Zoo

Written by Edy Zoo

Edy Zoo is a social critic, theologian, and philosopher who writes about social subjects.

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