Member-only story

Hidden Texts: A Journey into Relationship Trust

Seeking Clarity in the Age of Digital Privacy

Edy Zoo
3 min readOct 28, 2023
Photo by Asterfolio on Unsplash

In today’s age, our phones aren’t just gadgets; they’re personal vaults. They hold our memories, conversations, and secrets. So when a significant other becomes protective of their phone, hiding texts and conversations, it can raise more than just eyebrows. It can raise a whole barrage of questions.

I remember a friend, Sarah, recounting her experience. “Every time his phone buzzed, he’d quickly glance at it and then, almost instinctively, turn it screen-down,” she said. It was a subtle act, but one that didn’t go unnoticed. Her partner, once open and communicative, now seemed distant. Their once-transparent relationship now had an opaque barrier: his phone.

“Why would he hide things from me?” Sarah pondered.

This is a common question that many of us might grapple with when faced with similar situations. According to a survey by Pew Research Center, 45% of respondents admitted to keeping certain things on their phones private from their partners. But does seeking privacy necessarily equate to dishonesty?

The realm of digital communication is vast. Sometimes, hidden messages might simply be surprise plans for a date night or an anniversary. Jane Austen…

--

--

Edy Zoo
Edy Zoo

Written by Edy Zoo

Edy Zoo is a social critic, theologian, and philosopher who writes about social subjects.

No responses yet