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The Dating Marathon: Retaining Hope After Multiple Missed Connections

Navigating the Journey to Find Your Special Someone.

Edy Zoo
2 min readMay 15, 2023
Photo by Arif Riyanto on Unsplash

The quest for that elusive “special someone” can often feel like running a marathon where the finish line keeps moving further away. You’ve gone on countless dates, met an array of different individuals, yet that magical connection you yearn for remains just out of reach. So, what do you do when your dating journey starts to feel like an uphill climb?

Firstly, it’s crucial to remember that you’re not alone in this endeavor. The dating world is a shared experience, with each of us on our unique path to find a match. It’s okay to feel frustrated or disheartened, but don’t let those feelings morph into self-doubt. The right person is out there; sometimes, it just takes a bit longer to cross paths.

During this time, self-care should be your steadfast ally. Engage in activities that bring you joy, uplift your spirit, and remind you of your worth beyond your dating status. Whether it’s a hobby, fitness routine, or simply spending quality time with loved ones, these activities will help rejuvenate your spirit and keep you grounded.

Consider this period as an opportunity for self-reflection and growth. What have you learned from your past dates? Are there patterns you’ve…

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Edy Zoo
Edy Zoo

Written by Edy Zoo

Edy Zoo is a social critic, theologian, and philosopher who writes about social subjects.

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