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Touch in Love: More Than a Feeling

Unraveling the Silent Language of Physical Connection

Edy Zoo
3 min readOct 22, 2023
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Have you ever noticed how a simple hug can make your day, or how holding hands can sometimes say more than words? This unspoken interaction is a cornerstone in the realm of love and affection, a language without words but heavy with meanings. It’s the warm, fuzzy secret that binds us, often taken for granted, yet vital. It’s about physical touch, an intricate dance partners in a relationship engage in, often without giving it much thought.

Picture this: a couple sitting on a park bench. While they’re not saying much, he gently squeezes her hand, and she rests her head on his shoulder. They’re not just sharing a bench; they’re sharing a unique moment, strengthening their bond through the power of touch.

But why is touch so powerful?

The answer lies deep within our biology. Touch is among the first of the senses to develop in humans, and it remains an instrumental form of communication throughout our lives. Dr. Tiffany Field, the founder of the Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami’s Miller School of Medicine, notes,

“Even fleeting forms of touch like a pat on the back or a hand on the shoulder can be very comforting. It can…

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Edy Zoo
Edy Zoo

Written by Edy Zoo

Edy Zoo is a social critic, theologian, and philosopher who writes about social subjects.

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