Why Cheating Can Actually Save Your Relationship

Here’s the skinny on the surprising benefits of cheating in a relationship.

Edy Zoo
6 min readAug 10, 2024
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Julian and Maya had been together for six years when everything changed. They were that couple everyone assumed would last forever — always smiling in photos, finishing each other’s sentences, the whole deal.

But as time passed, life got in the way. Julian became consumed by his career while Maya juggled work, friendships, and ambitions. They weren’t fighting; instead, they drifted into a routine where each coexisted more than they connected.

Then Julian messed up. He had a fling with a coworker during a business trip. It wasn’t planned, and he regretted it almost immediately, but the damage was done.

When Maya found out, her world crumbled. She felt like the ground had been ripped out from beneath her, and Julian was consumed by guilt. He knew he had to face the consequences and take responsibility.

Initially, it seemed like the end of their relationship. The shock and anger were overwhelming, and it felt like there was no way back. Yet, as the dust began to settle, something unexpected happened.

They started talking — really talking — for the first time in what felt like forever. Those initial conversations…

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Edy Zoo

Edy Zoo is a social critic, theologian, and philosopher who writes about social subjects.